2987 This is the third time I ask for us to consider

I took the following from another forum I belong to, and propose that we consider to post similar objectives under a unique section reserved for future reference. This would allow all of us to go to it, from time to time, to refresh our memories regarding proper conduct on our forums.

Also, it would allow anyone to suggest to another to review these rules, following a questionable post by that person.

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General chat about Italy

Ooh, someones not going to like the red! :D

It is a sensible post Francis but we have a problem the forum is full of diverse humans and they make errors. :)

Great post, Francis.

Personally I like the red!

I have responded to Adriatica's post ([url]http://www.italymag.co.uk/forums/showthread.php?t=2984)[/url], which is very much in the vein as yours. I agree completely with what you have said. Trullo's post serves only to make such reminders of how we should behave even more pertinent.

Peter, I'm agreeing so why do you say that? And the joke about the red, does this mean we are not allowed to be funny ever on here?

And just to prove my point how posts and humans can cause error.

[url]http://italymag.co.uk/forums/legal/2603-lawyers-10.html[/url]

Have you discussed this with Ronald, as it sounds like his domain to make such decisions?

[QUOTE=trullomartinafranca]Peter, I'm agreeing so why do you say that? And the joke about the red, does this mean we are not allowed to be funny ever on here?[/QUOTE]

Hey man, I was only saying I liked the red! Of course there's room for humour. God forbid we should all be po faced. That'd be the quickest way to clear the forum. I really don't know where you picked the idea up that I may be anti-humour from. All I was saying is that we need to be respectful towards each other.

This to me highlights one of the problems of writing - you cannot express the intonation that comes with speaking, so that people realise that you are or are not being serious. Smileys help, but I never seem to get one of the ruddy things to slot in where I want it to!!

Well, that made me smile and sorry if I got you wrong, keep doing that lately! :rolleyes:

The smiley will go wherever your cursor is, and they will be in the drop down in bar above or at side depending how you have set up your panel.

:D :D :D

[QUOTE=DavidandLinda]Have you discussed this with Ronald, as it sounds like his domain to make such decisions?[/QUOTE]

Ronald has put up similar rules before and all can easily view them as a reminder... though common sense should really prevail methinks.

Thanks alot for making such an effort, though, Francis. It seems yours sound a little more polite... :D

[quote=DavidandLinda]Have you discussed this with Ronald, as it sounds like his domain to make such decisions?[/quote]

To answer your question, all of my postings are visible to all, and if I remember correctly, yes I made this suggestion to Ronald as well in a subtle way.

Ronald does read our posts, and when he will find time, he will act as he sees fit, I am sure. He did respond to my prior suggestion to create a chatroom; has he not?

However, nobody is stopped from going back to my posts on this topic.;)