2571 Mods and Rockers, Tuttttt, tuttt.

OK, so, what happened apparently was that I had me bike kicked from under me by a few rockers, causin' a ruck, Ronald, bless 'im tried to clean up the Parka, he was in a bit of a rush, it got boil washed ???, well, the blanket lining got all saggy, the outside shrunk, it just didnt look good at all, so, like, we've had a bit of a natter, I've got a new Parka now every bit as good as the old one, we've had some "Manly hugs" ;) and repainted the target on the back of the Parka for those who like them there, the bike is getting a couple of new spotlights and some real air horns too and I'm fitting stabilisers and a big crash bar. Off to the shops, bank and bar now, ohh, it's finally started snowing properly.

For those of you not around at the time errrm, I'm back, and, moderating after an incidental accident.
Thanks for the support, see you later. :)

Category
Circolo di Conversazione

Great now we can return to normal service!
Total chaos, sarcasm, bitching and humour and George can chase around tooting his air horns and flashing his new spots!

Welcome back George :D

george... i actually protested in the general chat area about both you and marc...the post deleted and ronald cross with me and now after explanations uncross...

the point is i regard him as fair...i regard the three original moderators ...who used to have their status in their profile as excellent,balanced and with their fett firmly on the ground ... and when one...i think sano did close off a thread which afterwards he seemed to rgeret his apology appeared both sincere and honest...

now we have three new moderators... iona marc and george... if you click at the bottom of the main screen on forum leadres it will tell you who is who...if anyone wonders how you find them....

my post about moderators regarded both you and marc...is it spelt with a k or not.... i regard his control as purely commercial and i regard his removal of commercial above line postings hypocritical as he advertises one of the sponsors of his site ...primelocation whenever he can....above line

george i have always regarded you as a pretty in effective character ...posting one liners of friendly nonsense and really nothing much to say until you find someone that you can provoke into an arguement... i dont consider this as a way for a modertaor to behave...

i am more than sad that ronald has seen fit to re instate you as one.... i havent met many people like you since school ... i was scared of them then and still are... a person that wheedles around with nice views on the surface while getting other people into trouble... others may support you all they want... i find it strange that someone who has posted more inefectual rubbish on the place is regarded as suitable as a moderator ... nor a person that digs and digs with snide litlle humorous ... for some anyway .... comments to wind people up ... as either suitable to moderate or in any way someone i would want to know....

whilst you were a normal forum member i had to put up with it.... now you have brought your insencerity out into the open with your habitual 60 s [color=#66aa66]****[/color] i want no more to do with you...

i presume this sort of conversation is allowed here ... i have read enough of this [color=#66aa66]****[/color] before in this area.... if not i guess ronald will be calling me in again and in a sense justifiably.... and i presume there will not be a way back this time.... hopefully one day the same will happen to you george...

there are in my opinion at least a hundred others on here that i would have been totally happy with as a moderator and most probably the whole membership before you

ok - now that we have all had our say (except aliena who is showing great restraint :) ) could we just sit back and see what happens.

also - adriatica personal attacks are really not the point of this forum. whether from george or you if I see them I will edit them.

so please keep it as calm and civil as possible.

if you think George has posted somethign that should be removed let me have a link and I will look at it.

[COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Adriatica, I have supported you on many occasions as well as point out the things I didn't agree with. We all have different points of view but you really must stand back and look at yourself! [/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]George[/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] may not be perfect but neither are you and if you bother to take time to read past posts of [/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]George[/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]'s he has been very helpful to many people. Get over it and get on with what your good at, reporting Italian news.[/FONT][/COLOR]

[QUOTE=ronald]ok - now that we have all had our say ([B]except aliena who is showing great restraint :) [/B]) could we just sit back and see what happens.

also - adriatica personal attacks are really not the point of this forum. whether from george or you if I see them I will edit them.

so please keep it as calm and civil as possible.

if you think George has posted somethign that should be removed let me have a link and I will look at it.[/QUOTE]

Ronald and everyone who knows the whole story. (Not many)

I have fretted over this situation since the early hours of Sunday morning and it has affected me greatly. In another thread members waited and are possibly still waiting patienly for a reply or an explanation from me.

I have only shown 'great restraint' due to trust and respect for some, the confidentiality of others and a certain feeling that my hands were tied.

But I want you all to know I am chomping at the bit!!

:) :)

Adriatica, you have every right to have an opinion about me, and, I am sure thatI can live with that. In the past, I looked forward to reading your very informative replies to people with construction problems etc., many of your threads to inform people about the problems in puglia have been hi jacked, and the fall out from them has hit you on more than one occasion, so, I will continue to look forward to reading your postings, and, of course you can ignore mine, it is pretty unlikely that I would have to moderate any of your posts, but, if I have to, I will do so with respect and in the full and certain knowledge that if you disagree, you will voice your protest in front of me.

Please people this is a forum not a gladiators ring, can we all just show each other a little respect and calm down. I feel that George and Adriatica have something to offer to the forum. I'm sure it would be a lesser place with out the input of such individuals. Perhaps a wide berth may initially be necessary but can we get back to normal service.

It is sometimes difficult to find time to access the forum very regularly but often when I find this is the case a war has broken out.
I deal with my children all five of them ( from toddler to teenager) every day! but I really think that it is not so difficult to find the common ground if one seeks it out or ties a knot in one's tongue and counts to ten.
The key reason we are all here is a love of Italy so let's remember the common ground.
Just for the record I do enjoy a witty thread, god knows I need some fun!
but I don't feel this harms the forum, if placed within context.
I also really enjoy the serious threads, which are one of the reasons I joined.
I'M sure we can achieve a balance, after all we are all grown ups . ........well sort of.

Sorry this was so long, I must have had a home based rant lurking within me, still better you lot get it than my kids!!!!!!!!!:)
group hugs all round............. can anyone feel the love in the room!

I quite agree, sure there are differences between each others thoughts and opinions, the way they act and their passions. If we were all the same it would be very boring and very crowded as we'd all have to live in the same house!

I vote for peace and the ability to understand that being different is not wrong or an afront to another being

George

The last time I saw a mod he crashed into us in our car, there was glass everywhere. He had that many mirrors he could only see behind him. :D

Still the helpful Hells Angels from Leeds did a grand job of tidying up, they threw 4 scooters off the end of Scarborough pier. ;)

Dave

The 2 Daves

I appreciated both of your posts. I completely agree with one.. the other.. made me laugh for a very long time!

I'm sure you can work out which one was which! :D

:) :)

[quote=Aliena]The 2 Daves

I appreciated both of your posts. I completely agree with one.. the other.. made me laugh for a very long time!

I'm sure you can work out which one was which! :D

:)[/quote]

I am glad you are so well entertained - good to see that Daves have their uses:cool: :cool:

[QUOTE=trullomartinafranca][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Adriatica, I have supported you on many occasions as well as point out the things I didn't agree with. We all have different points of view but you really must stand back and look at yourself! [/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]George[/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] may not be perfect but neither are you and if you bother to take time to read past posts of [/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]George[/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]'s he has been very helpful to many people. Get over it and get on with what your good at, reporting Italian news.[/FONT][/COLOR][/QUOTE]

This is very like the post you posted in October in a thread called Jack Russels....
That thread was started by Adriatica with the sole purpose of campaigning to have me removed from the forum and at that time you seemed to think that a good spanking and time in the sin bin was enough punishment for me but the spirit of his attack you agreed with!
Now he is at it again calling for GeorgeS to be removed as moderator but this time you think he has gone too far and what I take from that is that you have a much higher opinion of GeorgeS than of me which is kind of depressing.
Inbetween times Adriatica has insulted the pope and the German nation without censor from the moderators but only by his peers.
I wonder if the moderators would have got involved If he had insulted the prophet Muhammad instead of the pope and Albania instead of Germany. All that said, I like Adriatica's grumpy old git postings and agree with a lot of what he says about George's suitability as a moderator.

[QUOTE=sdoj]This is very like the post you posted in October in a thread called Jack Russels....
That thread was started by Adriatica with the sole purpose of campaigning to have me removed from the forum and at that time you seemed to think that a good spanking and time in the sin bin was enough punishment for me but the spirit of his attack you agreed with!
Now he is at it again calling for GeorgeS to be removed as moderator but this time you think he has gone too far and what I take from that is that you have a much higher opinion of GeorgeS than of me which is kind of depressing.
Inbetween times Adriatica has insulted the pope and the German nation without censor from the moderators but only be his peers.
I wonder if the moderators would have got involved If he had insulted the prophet Muhammad instead of the pope and Albania instead of Germany. All that said I like Adriatica's grumpy old git postings and agree with a lot of what he says about George's suitability as a moderator.[/QUOTE]

Like many of you the moderators have jobs and lives offline and are not always available to read through each and every post in each and every thread. We do rely on members to advise us when things go astray in here and they are then dealt with as appropriate. Also, we are human and do make mistakes - both of omission and commission.

Hopefully instead of sniping over choices made the good members of this forum will help us to keep this place a friendly and functioning online community where people can exchange ideas and information on Italy.

Its good to walk in the country this time of year!

[QUOTE=Sano]Like many of you the moderators have jobs and lives offline and are not always available to read through each and every post in each and every thread. We do rely on members to advise us when things go astray in here and they are then dealt with as appropriate. Also, we are human and do make mistakes - both of omission and commission.

Hopefully instead of sniping over choices made the good members of this forum will help us to keep this place a friendly and functioning online community where people can exchange ideas and information on Italy.[/QUOTE]

isn't it an italian custom.... to snipe? :D

[QUOTE=giovanni]isn't it an italian custom.... to snipe? :D[/QUOTE]

Indeed... sometimes it is taken to extremes here though.

[QUOTE=Sano]Like many of you the moderators have jobs and lives offline and are not always available to read through each and every post in each and every thread. We do rely on members to advise us when things go astray in here and they are then dealt with as appropriate. Also, we are human and do make mistakes - both of omission and commission.

Hopefully instead of sniping over choices made the good members of this forum will help us to keep this place a friendly and functioning online community where people can exchange ideas and information on Italy.[/QUOTE]

I understand moderators can't be omnipresent ... only God and Aliena can manage that! My original posting wasn't a snipe at moderators for not being there as I had imagined the German/Pope thing had been let go because both are deemed acceptable targets whereas Macedonia and Prophet Muhammad might not be. This would be in accordance with the editorial policy of much of the UK media and I think the rationale is that Germany is big enough to stand up for itself and so is the Vatican.
As regards your wish for this to be "a friendly and functioning online community" I couldn't agree more but I am still sore at the way I was hounded in October (although you did come to my aid Sano) and if there is anywhere to air these type of grievances it surely must be here in Circolo di Conversazione.
P.S. If we had mod elections I would vote for you!

[QUOTE=sdoj]I understand moderators can't be omnipresent ... only God and Aliena can manage that! My original posting wasn't a snipe at moderators for not being there as I had imagined the German/Pope thing had been let go because both are deemed acceptable targets whereas Macedonia and Prophet Muhammad might not be. This would be in accordance with the editorial policy of much of the UK media and I think the rationale is that Germany is big enough to stand up for itself and so is the Vatican.
As regards your wish for this to be "a friendly and functioning online community" I couldn't agree more but I am still sore at the way I was hounded in October (although you did come to my aid Sano) and if there is anywhere to air these type of grievances it surely must be here in Circolo di Conversazione.
P.S. If we had mod elections I would vote or you![/QUOTE]

elections, nows theres a demacratic idea!

[QUOTE=sdoj].....This would be in accordance with the editorial policy of much of the UK media and I think the rationale is that Germany is big enough to stand up for itself and so is the Vatican.
As regards your wish for this to be "a friendly and functioning online community" I couldn't agree more but I am still sore at the way I was hounded in October (although you did come to my aid Sano) and if there is anywhere to air these type of grievances it surely must be here in Circolo di Conversazione.
P.S. If we had mod elections I would vote or you![/QUOTE]

Agree with you. Some of what was mentioned at that time bugged me too and I responded to it accordingly - and received fair replies from those who'd posted them in the first instance. No offence intended - so no offence taken. It happened a good while ago and I certainly don't bear any grudges.... Life's too short! :)

P.S. ... how could I bribe you to vote for me??? ;) ;)

Just to prove that Stodge is right.. sometimes.. here I am! And although I do not agree with his comparision of Aliena with God, his post is not the reason I am omnipresent now.. :D

Only a few of you will know exactly what I mean when I say "the stones have moved".

It means when something happens at exactly the right time.. for exactly the right reasons.. in exactly the right way. It's a positive thing and very nice when it happens for you.

The stones have just moved for Aliena.. and it prompted this reply now.

I've just read a thread called "London restaurant webcams"

It has little to do with London.. or indeed webcams, but it's a very nice thread and I enjoyed reading it and saw something in that thread that I had almost forgotten about.

I'm ever so glad I read it and maybe you will be too.. especially if you are thinking about dropping a post here.. maybe if you go to read that thread first.. maybe you will change your mind.. and allow this thread to work its way out of the system..

:) :)

someone kicked sand in my face so I cant see where to step and the same person has pinched my flip flop and the stones have moved...ouch ouch ouch!

[QUOTE=Aliena]Just to prove that Stodge is right.. sometimes.. here I am! And although I do not agree with his comparision of Aliena with God, his post is not the reason I am omnipresent now.. :D

Only a few of you will know exactly what I mean when I say "the stones have moved".

It means when something happens at exactly the right time.. for exactly the right reasons.. in exactly the right way. It's a positive thing and very nice when it happens for you.

The stones have just moved for Aliena.. and it prompted this reply now.

I've just read a thread called "London restaurant webcams"

It has little to do with London.. or indeed webcams, but it's a very nice thread and I enjoyed reading it and saw something in that thread that I had almost forgotten about.

I'm ever so glad I read it and maybe you will be too.. especially if you are thinking about dropping a post here.. maybe if you go to read that thread first.. maybe you will change your mind.. and allow this thread to work its way out of the system..

:) :)[/QUOTE]

read it? maybe the BMW is affecting me!

[quote=sdoj]This is very like the post you posted in October in a thread called Jack Russels....
That thread was started by Adriatica with the sole purpose of campaigning to have me removed from the forum and at that time you seemed to think that a good spanking and time in the sin bin was enough punishment for me but the spirit of his attack you agreed with!
Now he is at it again calling for GeorgeS to be removed as moderator but this time you think he has gone too far and what I take from that is that you have a much higher opinion of GeorgeS than of me which is kind of depressing.
[/quote]

My Dear Stodge, Apart from the fact that there is increased paranioa going on all over this forum I would like to make it clear that I do not have a higher opinion of George than you. I agree or disagree with any situation at the time. What I said in Jack Russle thread was this.
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[CENTER][COLOR=black]For instance most of this original post I agree with but do not think Sdoj has to be banned, that’s equally stupid! [/COLOR][/CENTER]
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[CENTER]Equally as far as Adriatica's post, some of what Adriatica has said about George I do not disagree with but some I do. My point in both cases being that no one needs to be banned or have mod rights removed because this forum changes all the time as do peoples perspective on things. Adriatica said what he felt/feels about the situation and I said what I felt. George has not been perfect in the past but neither has Adriatica or me or you or anyone! [/COLOR][/CENTER][/CENTER]

[QUOTE=trullomartinafranca]My Dear Stodge, Apart from the fact that there is increased paranioa going on all over this forum I would like to make it clear that I do not have a higher opinion of George than you. I agree or disagree with any situation at the time. What I said in Jack Russle thread was this.
[CENTER][CENTER][COLOR=black]

Equally as far as Adriatica's post, some of what Adriatica has said about George I do not disagree with but some I do. My point in both cases being that no one needs to be banned or have mod rights removed because this forum changes all the time as do peoples perspective on things. Adriatica said what he felt/feels about the situation and I said what I felt. George has not been perfect in the past but neither has Adriatica or me or you or anyone! [/COLOR][/CENTER][/CENTER][/QUOTE]

speak for yourself...............my middle name is perfectomento...:)

Dear Trulli

There you go in that preachy tone again. I said it reminded me of the Jack Russel post and you have just confirmed it. The difference being that that time you agreed with much of what Adriatica said but this time you didn't. Hence my tongue-in-cheek reference to your affections for me and gorgeous George. Now who is being paranoid...tell me...who?

SDOJ (without a GEGE)

Stodge, So your point is?

Not me with paranioa, not this thread anyway, others maybe.
Yup, there goes my preachy tone again.

it doesn't mean they are not out to get you Trulli

I think your all perfectly reasonable, rational and kindly people :); and very lucky....that you don't don't live in Salem in 1692 ;)

[QUOTE=Wishful Thinker]I think your all perfectly reasonable, rational and kindly people :); and very lucky....that you don't don't live in Salem in 1692 ;)[/QUOTE]

only the first ten months..... after that there was room to move....:)

[QUOTE=Aliena]
Just to prove that Stodge is right..

The stones have just moved for Aliena..
:) :)[/QUOTE]

Rolling Stones or Beatles - scousers usually like the former or the latter - can never remember?

[QUOTE=sdoj] but I am still sore at the way I was hounded in October [/QUOTE]
Blimey sdoj…..was hoping that if I slung my hook it would give you time to calm down and mend your wounded pride…..however 5 months on clearly not the case…..…..as far I was concerned and can remember we had a spat about the use of language and generalisation about race. Making a racist remark ( we all have different boundaries of interpretation) does not necessarily mean you (or one) IS a racist. That I suspect ultimately is something only our conscience knows. However, unfortunately instead of allowing that thread to melt away like many other daft tiffs on this forum, it was you who decided to create a huge melodrama and blow it completely out of proportion with a vitriolic attack on some of my old posts…..(was very impressed by the speed if not the quality)…..The subsequent “hounding” as you choose to call it, despite the fact a Jack Russell is a terrier not a hound, was actually a direct result of your rather immature and vindicative behaviour after our spat so beats me why you persist in bearing a grudge and drawing attention to it when you have nobody to blame except yourself......move on and deal with it......like Iona says Lifes too short!

ps. Just in case this triggers another of your lightening forays into my old posts let me assure you theres still plenty of old rubbish out there!

WILL!!
Your alive and kickin! :D
Do stay, it's ever so much fun on here these days. ;)

I am not sniggering.. I would never do that.. not even quietly.. but I do wonder which comment actually persuaded Will back into former fighting fit forum form! ;)

:) :)

[QUOTE=will]Blimey sdoj…..was hoping that if I slung my hook it would give you time to calm down and mend your wounded pride…..however 5 months on clearly not the case…..…..as far I was concerned and can remember we had a spat about the use of language and generalisation about race. Making a racist remark ( we all have different boundaries of interpretation) does not necessarily mean you (or one) IS a racist. That I suspect ultimately is something only our conscience knows. However, unfortunately instead of allowing that thread to melt away like many other daft tiffs on this forum, it was you who decided to create a huge melodrama and blow it completely out of proportion with a vitriolic attack on some of my old posts…..(was very impressed by the speed if not the quality)…..The subsequent “hounding” as you choose to call it, despite the fact a Jack Russell is a terrier not a hound, was actually a direct result of your rather immature and vindicative behaviour after our spat so beats me why you persist in bearing a grudge and drawing attention to it when you have nobody to blame except yourself......move on and deal with it......like Iona says Lifes too short!

ps. Just in case this triggers another of your lightening forays into my old posts let me assure you theres still plenty of old rubbish out there![/QUOTE]

In October last year Will called me a racist on an open forum: ([url]http://www.italymag.co.uk/forums/showthread.php?t=1638[/url])
This because he misinterpreted my remarks about the Irish ... I tried to correct him two or three times but he persisted and wouldn't retract. GeorgeS also called Giovanni a racist without due cause at about the same time.
I was very much a greenhorn at the time and this was the first forum I had ever joined and
thank goodness for those who supported me, as Valgee said at the time:
[I][COLOR="Blue"]I have just been over the posts that started all this and I would like to say that many a time I have noticed how touchy people are over certain remarks, its one of the reasons I very rarely post. I didn't find anything whatsoever racist in the original post that started everything. I would hate to find out what would happen if someone did say something really bad. [/COLOR][/I]

And this is the point honest well-meaning people are dissuaded from contributing to this forum because of snipers like GeorgeS and Will.

The accusation deeply affected me and in the heat of that spat I did rather a foolish thing - I trawled through a number of Will's posts and posted retorts attempting to show him up for the shallow, worthless contributor that he was.
I don't regret the trawling because that gave me the conviction to stay on this forum but the postings were a mistake and Ronald quite rightly censored me.
However, a beef that I still have to this day is that no decisive action was taken against Will for calling me a racist in the first place. Had it been, the whole unpleasant event would have been avoided. Of course, if I had not been a newbie I would have known that I should contact a moderator and seek their assistance ... but every day there are more newbies joining.
I have said this several times before: I don't think anyone should be allowed to be called a liar, a thief, a pervert or a racist in an open forum without clear evidence to support the accusation. In the event that the liar, pervert, thief or racist is merely under suspicion then the moderators and the complainant should deal with it in private and ask the suspect to account for their postings anyone who doesn't respect this principal as in the case of Will should be removed from the forum.
As Iona rightly says the insensitive remarks concerning Germans were quickly corrected by genuine and sincere apologies whereas neither GeorgeS nor Will have apologised for wrongly accusing Giovanni and me of racism. I already alerted Ronald that I suspected that I was about to be ambushed like this and he tried to warn George off but...

Stodge, In my very best preachy tone but clearly there will be little point, as you can not move on, do not appreciate cyber space causes untold misunderstandings, paranoia and human error. Here's both tests, they may help?

Paranoid Test - [url]http://www.okcupid.com/tests/take?testid=6461285824806682574[/url]

Neurotic test - [url]http://www.queendom.com/tests/minitests/fx/neurotic.html[/url]

Now can we get back to having some fun or even learning something useful and it would be really nice if Will joined us.

sorry stodge - I am with trulli on this one

Forums and indeed chat rooms are only text based - and often humour gets lost as there is no intonation in comments - so what might me a light hearted quip by you maybe misinterpreted by another.

I use this forum for both pleasure and information - so if something goes bad - for whatever - deal or ride with it - and then forget -

This is an excellent forum and we are all very different people with a common love of Italy - lets keep it at that.

And people change over time - so what happened last year may not be relevant now - anyway!!!

[LEFT][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]It is incredible to think that all this used to be such fun. What on earth is happening on Forum these days?[/SIZE][/FONT][/LEFT]

[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I am trying to look at both sides of the argument here. What sticks out is the word misinterpreted. It seems that rather a lot of misinterpretation occurs on this Forum. [/SIZE][/FONT]

[SIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]Most things will, inevitably, be taken out of context and it is only natural to expect dented feelings and reactions such as Sdoj’s[COLOR=black] trawling through a number of Will's posts in order to show him up, for which he openly admits was a wrong thing to do. This is no attempt to exclude liability on Will or GeorgeS’s part who are, in my opinion, equally at fault (all of us are from time to time).[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]

[SIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]In the interest of free speech, we all deserve the right to draw from experience and say what we feel on this Forum, and I see nothing wrong with vigorous debate and fighting your own corner, providing it doesn’t escalate into a protracted and all consuming, vindictive war. Nobody, not even if there’s[COLOR=black] unequivocal evidence to support the accusation, should be called liar, a thief, a pervert or a racist in an open Forum.[/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE]

[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Each member brings, moreover, a valid (sometimes controversial maybe) contribution to these pages and I see no reason why some should be banned, unless they are (and continue to be) in breach of Forum rules and guidelines of course, and persist in making verbal assaults of a personal and hostile nature.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Maybe we should all exercise a greater degree of care, especially towards new members. Neither do I want to see Sdoj nor Will leave Forum and so, can we see a [I]restituo in integrum[/I] and all enjoy ourselves again please.[/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Now that I’ve said my bit…I’m off to join Aliena’s space ship:) :D [/SIZE][/FONT]

[QUOTE=Charles Joseph][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][B]Now that I’ve said my bit…I’m off to join Aliena’s space ship[/B] :D [/SIZE][/FONT][/QUOTE]
Now if that don't teach ya all to stop clucking around, shut up and move on.. nothing will!

Welcome aboard Mr Marche! :D

:) :)

Who deleted Stodges post that was until a few minutes ago, after post "35" and before what is now post "36"?

:confused: :confused:

the post referred to above is showing up on the moderation screen as "deleted by sdoj" reason "leaving", if sdoj would wish it to be re instated, any moderator will be able to do this.

[LEFT]I have restored the post as I would like to see the matter resolved amicably and for everyone to move on.

Sdoj I don't think it necessary for you to leave Forum.[/LEFT]

whats the weather like in Italy today?

Absolutely agree Mr Marche!

Stodge.. think chess.. think what Aliena taught you as we played that game of chess yesterday! Don't let that chess lesson be a waste of time.. for either you, Aliena.. or this forum!

:) :)

[QUOTE=will]Blimey sdoj…..was hoping that if I slung my hook it would give you time to calm down and mend your wounded pride…..however 5 months on clearly not the case…..…..as far I was concerned and can remember we had a spat about the use of language and generalisation about race. Making a racist remark ( we all have different boundaries of interpretation) does not necessarily mean you (or one) IS a racist. That I suspect ultimately is something only our conscience knows. However, unfortunately instead of allowing that thread to melt away like many other daft tiffs on this forum, it was you who decided to create a huge melodrama and blow it completely out of proportion with a vitriolic attack on some of my old posts…..(was very impressed by the speed if not the quality)…..The subsequent “hounding” as you choose to call it, despite the fact a Jack Russell is a terrier not a hound, was actually a direct result of your rather immature and vindicative behaviour after our spat so beats me why you persist in bearing a grudge and drawing attention to it when you have nobody to blame except yourself......move on and deal with it......like Iona says Lifes too short!

ps. Just in case this triggers another of your lightening forays into my old posts let me assure you theres still plenty of old rubbish out there![/QUOTE]

brilliant post,and well worth reading...let me read it again.......................
yes will, up there with the best.............. and given you have had time to
compose this jem,i feel you have produced another marvel !

lets see..............yep, you havn't changed.....you have no faults...but then
...why did you bother writting this ....no really,as you plainly say its sdoj
who you would have us believe has the problem, not u. plainly you misjudge
yourself,if this post is anything to go by...but then something as simple as
saying "i'm sorry,for the misunderstanding" is something far too big for u.....
instead u decide a witty retort is your best option, of something you seem to
remember in great detail for someone who would have us believe,has moved
on...........
well done bravo.....

I think Charles has explained things wisely as usual.

Comments have been misinterpreted and returning to old arguments is not constructive. Complaints have been noted and moderation will be vigilant to make sure unstuitable comments are avoided from now on.

Let us consider this particular subject closed.

Ronald